Wednesday, April 17, 2013

It's a very sad and difficult time in my life

I'm going to keep this short, but it's not sweet.

The Husband and I have separated.

A personal message to the friends he's probably going to be get in the split:  Those of you who are reading this who have heard only his side of the story.  I'd like to tell you that the weekend you saw him, when he told you I was leaving him, I hadn't given him my final decision about the separation.  I'd asked him to give me through that weekend. 

If you'd like to hear my side of the story I'm glad to tell you. But I'm not going to do it publicly.  You can private message me via email or Facebook. 

I'm really very sad about this.  22 years is a long, long time.  And we had a really good thing going at one time. 

When we got married in 1990, we were so much in love.  Somewhere between now and then it went sour.  My heart is broken for my children.  I'm so concerned about what they'll be going through.  I love them so much

Again, if you'd like to hear my side of it, I'll tell you. 

7 comments:

gloucester said...

I am so sorry for what you are going through. We are FB friends so I will just say that you are in my thoughts.

gloucester said...

Are not FB friends I meant to say.

bedlamhouse said...

Hugs. It's hard.

We're not here to judge or take sides, what kind of friends would that be?

Maya said...

*HUGS* I'm so sorry. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

katyhh said...

If both of you agree on co-parenting issues and both continue to try to support your children together, they will get through it fine and will understand when they are older. I believe that it is better for children if mommy and daddy separate and be open and caring about it to them, than everyone continuing living together even though it does not really work anymore.
You guys will work this out, I am sure. I wish you strength.

Debbie Ridpath Ohi said...

So sorry to hear this. :-( *Many hugs*

Jodi Krangle said...

:( So sorry you're going through difficult times. Many many hugs to you both.